For the woman who is done repeating the same relationship pattern and is ready to actually change it.
In private 1:1 relationship coaching with Monika Martin, we work together in real time to uncover what keeps your relationship stuck, interrupt the old pattern as it happens, and help you respond differently so the relationship can actually start to change.
This is an 8-week experience focused on your actual relationship. Your partner does not need to join you. We work on what you can change: how you see yourself, what you make a situation mean, and how you respond.
You may already know that you overthink, chase reassurance, shut down, mentally leave the relationship, or get pulled right back in the second things feel good again.
But awareness alone does not automatically change the pattern.
Private coaching is where we work with the pattern while it is actually happening in your life — so you stop collecting more insight and start changing how you respond in the moment.
Recognize the pattern while it is happening
Understand what triggers your reaction
Stop turning their behavior into proof of what you fear
Interrupt the automatic response before it creates the same relationship dynamic
Change the way you show up in the relationship
Practice the new response in the actual situations happening in your life
This is close, personal work. We look at what is happening in your actual relationships, what you are making it mean, how you are reacting from your pattern, and what it looks like to choose differently in that moment.
The goal is not for you to become better at analyzing yourself. The goal is to stop repeating the pattern that keeps your relationship stuck.
The current private coaching option is an 8-week 1:1 experience for $2,999.
Email me to apply for private coaching
Tell me what keeps happening in your relationship and what you want to change. We’ll discuss whether private coaching is the right fit.
Monika Martin · Change the pattern. Change the relationship.