Monika Martin · Relationship pattern coach
Change your relationship.
I’ll show you how.
I’m Monika Martin. I offer relationship coaching for women who are tired of repeating the same painful patterns.
You keep telling him what you need. Nothing changes. Let’s find what keeps pulling you into the same fight, and what you can do differently.
I know what it’s like to feel like you don’t matter.
I spent years feeling unloved and unimportant in a relationship. I kept looking for something outside me to finally make me feel differently.
Then I saw the story I’d been treating as the truth: I didn’t matter. Changing that story changed how I saw myself and how I responded. When familiar patterns showed up again, I could see them and choose differently.
That’s the work I help women do now. We look at what’s happening in your actual relationship, find the belief underneath the pattern, and practice what it looks like to respond differently.
Find the story. Change the pattern. Change the relationship.
Where should I start?
Start with the free quiz. It helps you see whether fear, trying to change him, or trying to fix him is keeping you stuck.
Choose the $27 guide if you want to work through it yourself. Choose the $297 intensive if you want to look at your specific situation with me. Private coaching gives you ongoing support as you put the changes into practice.
We meet privately on Zoom for 90 minutes. We look at the situation you’re dealing with, uncover the belief and pattern shaping how you respond, and create a clear plan for what to do differently.
The session is $297. See my intensive and booking details.
Yes. The guide, intensive, and private coaching focus on your beliefs, the pattern you get pulled into, and how you respond. He doesn’t need to join you.
Changing how you see yourself and respond can change the dynamic between you. We focus on what you can change, and what you want for your relationship.